Arghhhh!

I think am a very patient being sometimes but some people ten to prove me wrong sometimes.
How shud one avoid somethings which just gets to you and agitates you? like when someone abrutly hangs up on you and refuses to tell you whats wrong when all you want always is to see a smile on that persons face wish whats best for em OR when you meet a Good close friend after a long time and he tells you to fuck off and leaves without paying heed to your exsistance OR when you strive all week to make someone special happy and then they call you a liar !!!!!! The first one made me loose it in guilt of a something i have done but i not know of, its funny feeling and a very confusing one which i got over after some heavy amount of battling in my head, The second one was a pure negative vibe thrown to me in my face like while i was trippin which my friend was unaware off, it was because of me not seeing him for a while but i cared a fuck for giving an explanation it was simple i had a life now and couldnt be available to his calls as before. The 3rd one is like wtf man your tripping hard i invite you comfort you give you music something to smoke which you say u dont feel ike smoking so i leave it to that . you have fun and leave.5 hours later you call and say u wanna smoke meet meet !i say possible but in a while, go draw or something peace&love, she says "Lair" in a txt and doesnt answer! This shows how people act when they dont get what they want at that very moment, their negativity is focused towards the blockage between them and their wants and the same blockage would be the divine messenger for them if all goes well.